Asian Playboy : Conveying Personality

Let’s get something straight, girls judge by looks. If you are NOT good looking, your only recourse is to have a hella tight VERBAL GAME.

Let’s get something straight, girls judge by looks. No ifs ands or buts about it, they simply do. They want someone tall, dark, and handsome with a huge cock. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS. They ALSO want someone that can fill an emotional vacuum as well as PROVIDE THEM with an emotional stimulus.

Honestly, I wouldn’t want to be a chick because guys judge almost exclusively by ONE CRITERIA. Which is looks. Now girls, judge by TWO CRITERIA (well, actually more, but for the sake of simplicity…) which are looks and YOUR ABILITY TO AFFECT THEIR EMOTIONS. Or, in lay man’s terms, your “personality.”

In order to exude confidence, fun, cool, and a host of other emotions, you must CONVEY that you have all these personality traits. This can range from peacocking in wild, outlandish, cool clothes showing that you are fun and unconventional to the VERBAL GAME

IF you have VERBAL GAME, then you can convey your personality, show the girl who you are, as well as push all those attraction buttons in a girl.

Some key elements of VERBAL GAME:

PROJECTION - If you cannot PROJECT and be VOCAL above the loud noise, sounding confident and engaging the group, then you are not conveying your personality. They cannot HEAR you and thusly will judge you simply on looks.

STORY TELLING - Girls communicate by story telling. They are emotional beings. Do not recite facts. Do not ask inane questions, but CONVEY YOUR PERSONALITY by telling multiple stories from your life that range from the funny, to the exciting, to the vulnerable. Role playing, future projection, and just being damn funny. Singing. Yes, I said singing.

KINO - Girls affect others (male & female) by touch. They know they can affect a man’s emotions and state by touching you. This also applies vice versa. You CAN touch girls without fear. You CAN caress them without fear. You CAN push them around without fear. You CAN kiss them without fear. BECAUSE GIRLS ENJOY KINO AND THEY ENJOY YOUR TOUCH.

SEXUAL STATE - By being in a sexual state, by being WILLING to phase shift into a sexual state and force HER into a sexual state, you are CONVEYING that you are a SEXUAL MAN. You WANT her and SHE wants you. THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THIS.

ENERGY - This is ESSENTIAL for interrupting large sets AND mixed sets. You must be willing to EXUDE and GIVE your energy to others. You must ENJOY the process of partying, sarging, and socializing with total strangers and NOT GIVE A SHIT.

PHYSICAL SPACE - Physical space is AN ILLUSION. You can invade her physical space, get closer to her, and FORCE her to look at you. On the flip side, you can act INDIFFERENT and make her insecure in her ability to attract YOU because you are keeping a certain amount of physical space.

INTERACTION - This is mostly for those who are heavily routine dependent. If you are simply reciting routine after routine, the girl will feel LESS INVESTED in the moment. You must PULL HER IN and interact with her.

FRAME CONTROL - You MUST control the frame, whatever that may be. You can treat her as a CHILD and she MUST accept it. She will be PULLED into YOUR reality and be fully concentrated on YOU. You cannot let HER control the frame or otherwise she will have NO EMOTIONAL CONNECTION WITH YOU.

QUALIFICATION - You MUST qualify her in order to create and maintain an emotional connection with her. Otherwise you will come off as either an ENTERTAINMENT, DANCING MONKEY or a PLAYER who simply takes her number and leaves, leaving her feeling cold, used, and impersonal. You MUST state at some point what about HER that YOU like. DIRECT GAME depends on this the MOST (ie You are BEAUTIFUL and I’d like to get to KNOW you better).

BODY LANGUAGE - While this is not exclusively VERBAL, the fact is, your body language SUBCOMMUNCIATES to others what YOUR status and value is. If you LOOK like you are uncomfortable in a social setting, your value, coolness, and overall personality GOES DOWN. If you LOOK and ACT like someone COMFORTABLE in his skin, then your value goes up. This can include the way you hold yourself, react to girls touching and talking with you, to dancing.

If you are NOT good looking, your only recourse is to have a hella tight VERBAL GAME. Mysterious, brooding, silent and sexy only works for Naturals who ARE naturally good looking and can get away without any kind of game.

So, to make a long story short, if you are NOT good looking (8 and above), then you MUST convey your personality to a girl in order for HER to find YOU attractive beyond just the physical aspects. You can think of yourself as the most fun, exciting, intellectual, sensitive guy, but if you cannot CONVEY it, if you are some wallflower that sticks to the shadows, then you cannot DEPLOY your verbal game and CREATE the attraction in her. Then you are depending on LUCK and HOPING that she somehow magically SEES those amazing aspects of you based on no observational, supporting data.

A New Stream Of Income For A Horse-Heale

In my forthcoming book, I share Karen Krueger's discovery of her gift for healing horses. Recently, through following her intuition, Karen was able to heal one of her horses of West Nile virus. She has helped many other horses through the application of Reiki and other energetic therapies. Here's a letter from Karen, which I received this week, that demonstrates how applying the Law of Attraction can guide you into finding many streams of income that are in complete alignment with your passion.

Hi Rebecca,

I hope you don't mind one of your students sharing a spectacular story.

Recently, I helped a friend who had broken her arm do some horse blanket repair. This type of sewing has always interested me, but didn't know what it entailed. My background in sewing consists of my mother sewing all my clothes from the time I was very young until I was in Jr. High School. I learned to really sew in Jr. High, and continued on making some of my clothes and then recently I began quilting. Sewing has been an intragal part of my life. I have even made clothes for my horses --like leg wraps and ankle boots. But I never knew how to make money at sewing.

SOOO....I really enjoyed helping my friend, and I even more, I enjoyed sewing horse blankets. It is a bit like quilting and there is creativity involved in piecing everything together. I LOVE IT!! My husband is 100% supportive and now he has financed me to start up my own business. I bought a used industrial sewing machine, and my out of work neighbor built two beautiful work tables for me. The basement is perfect place to set up my shop. The local feed stores are promoting my business. Since we live so far out of town where there are lots of horses and farms, there will be lots of work. I am attracting and visualizing the perfect clients will come to me for their horse clothing repairs.

This has come together just perfectly! It's amazing! I'm finding the equipment so easily, the materials are coming to me easily--for example: On Sunday, I just said to myself that it would be so nice to find someone who is getting rid of old used blankets for me to practice on. And 'lo and behold, I am driving down the road on Monday, and our neighbor, who just sold his house, had a bunch of junk by the road for the garbage pick up. There was a pile of used horse blankets lying there. WELL, I did a quick U turn and drove up to the house and asked if I could rummage through their stuff and take the blankets. They told me to help myself. Oh my gosh, there were SEVEN Blankets. And they are all salvageable!

You know, I kept thinking of you, Rebecca and how you started with your website business. Didn't that pave the way for your other businesses? [Absolutely!] I had been trying to think of something I could do that would tie into the horse-healing business. I felt there must be something that I would enjoy doing and could make money at. I have always been independent, and this will give me my own income to support my other habits, more horse healing seminars, etc.

I just finished one of the blankets tonight. It was really fun to repair--in fact, I LOVE IT. I feel certain that this business this will help pave the way for me to become established in the community and develop credibilty with the people I am supposed to come in contact with. And in turn it will help to establish me in the horse healing.

Oh, I also attracted the perfect horse sitter for the week we will be gone to Stockton, CA. She loves horses the way I do, and will be a perfect caregiver for all my horses. She passed the 'Lucy test'. Lucy liked her! She is exactly what I asked for.

Oh, one more thing happened this week--I wanted to find someone who could come in and organize my house which is pretty chaotic with two-year-old twins. I discovered my neighbor is a specialist at not only cleaning houses, but in organization as well! She's coming tommorrow. 

Since I began applying the Law of Attraction to my life, things are just happening!

I am just so excited. I wanted to share it with you, Rebecca and say 'Thank you!' for teaching and demonstrating how the Law of Attraction works.

Love,

Karen Krueger

3 Ways to Use the Secret in Your Life

The first thing everyone wants to know after watching the move the secret is, “How do I sue the Secret?”  That’s understandable because although the movie is good and it does introduce you to the law of attraction it does not quite tell you how to properly apply it to your life.

The First Step

One of the first things you can do in using the secret law of attraction in y our life is to educate yourself as much as possible on the subject of the law of attraction.  Learn the very nature of the law of attraction and how it influences your life.  

The core of the secret, are your thoughts which goes a lot deeper than negative verses positive thought.  If you understood the truly nature of thought you would be a huge step above those who think they understand the law of attraction.

The Second Step

The second step to mastering the secret law of attraction is to get a journal and begin to write.  Do you know most people have no clue what their predominant thought patters is, nor do they even know what it is that they want.

When you get a journal you can begin to explore your feelings on a much deeper level.  Seeing your feelings on paper clears it up from being cluttered in your mind.

The Third Step

The third step to using the secret law of attraction is to take small inspired action towards your goals.  With your new law of attraction journal you can begin to track daily every action you take that is in alignment with your goals.  Its very hard for most people to be aware of the way they spend their time.  When you set a specific plan and track it in your journal you have a better change of seeing how your week has gone, your month and then your year.

Much time can pass with many of us taking the same tiresome actions that get us the same lousy results again and again.  Then many people say that the law of attraction did not work in their lives but actually the law of attraction did work.  It simply worked to give you more of the same conditions you were creating again and again.